{"id":17421,"date":"2014-04-19T20:23:10","date_gmt":"2014-04-19T20:23:10","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/rafaelfajardo.com\/portfolio\/several-months-ago-i-was-at-a-school-event-where\/"},"modified":"2014-04-19T20:23:10","modified_gmt":"2014-04-19T20:23:10","slug":"several-months-ago-i-was-at-a-school-event-where","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/rafaelfajardo.com\/portfolio\/several-months-ago-i-was-at-a-school-event-where\/","title":{"rendered":""},"content":{"rendered":"

Several months ago, I was at a school event where a very young black girl was standing shyly off to the side as I was chatting with some 6th grade students after my presentation. She gave me her notebook and asked me to sign it, which I was glad to do. It was a book of her own poetry and short stories. I smiled and said \u201cI\u2019m so glad to meet a young writer!\u201d She beamed at me and said \u201cI love writing and I want to be a writer but I didn\u2019t think I could because I\u2019m not white.\u201d I was surprised and asked her if she\u2019d read any books by Walter Dean Myers, Angela Johnson, or Linda Sue Park. She nodded and shrugged her shoulder and said, \u201cBut I\u2019ve never seen them in person.\u201d To this young teen, an author of color was a mythical creature, not to be believed, until she\u2019d seen one in person. She couldn\u2019t believe in her dream to become a writer until she saw for herself that a real life POC had done it. This is why we must continue to fight for diversity in children\u2019s literature. For all of our children, so that they can see that we exist and that they can believe that their dreams of becoming whatever they want, can come true.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

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From this great post by Ellen Oh<\/a>.<\/p>\n

This story reminds me, too, of something I always talk about which was that I never met an author until I was like 25. Until then, I didn\u2019t think I could be one because I thought being an author was for special rich people who lived far away, probably in New York, and had some secret access to that whole world. (This was before the internet.) So I can totally imagine how a non-white kid who only ever met white authors would think the way the girl in this story does.<\/p>\n

Adults are models of possibility. We need to model all sorts of possibility for all sorts of kids, and can\u2019t ever assume that they just \u201cknow\u201d about things existing that they don\u2019t get to see and experience for themselves.<\/p>\n

Especially when you\u2019re a poor kid or otherwise not privileged in some way or come from an addicted family, you tend to have people around you that have those same limited and limiting beliefs. I never had goals or ambitions modeled for me by the adults in my immediate family. No one ever said I could and should try things that I wanted to do and have dreams and take risks. I learned survival and getting by, and making do with what you have and staying safe. I was a poor kid, and got that. When I multiply my own experience by a factor of also not-white, I can start to catch a tiny glimpse of what the girl in Ellen\u2019s story and kids like her are up against.<\/p>\n

I can stand in front of kids and talk about my background of poverty, and the dysfunction I grew up in, and I do do that, to share my own struggle to achieve a goal. But when I\u2019m talking to a roomful of not-white kids (and I\u2019ve been to plenty of schools like that) I know it\u2019s not the same as if they could see someone who looks like them telling that story. Thanks, Ellen, for sharing this.<\/p>\n

(via sarazarr<\/a>)<\/p>\n

I didn\u2019t believe that I could be a writer until I learned that SE Hinton was 1. a woman and 2. from Oklahoma just like me. I was born and raised on a farm. I went to a small school in a very rural area. Like a lot of people, I thought writers were mystical creatures (and dead Europeans). Learning THE OUTSIDERS was written by someone more similar to me than different changed the course of my life.<\/p>\n

It is SO important for young people with dreams to know that people who resemble them (in all ways\u2026race, gender, socioeconomic status\u2014everything!) have achieved the same dreams.<\/p>\n

So dream. Share. Repeat.<\/p>\n

-Ally<\/p>\n

(via theallycarter<\/a>)<\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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